are you kidding me? 'in a box or in a bag'? you do know that the lyrics on the video aren't actually the lyrics to the song right? shit! i mean shit! but seriously though....shit! ok so the lyric is actually "I said, I don't know whether I was the boxer or the bag" and as kat said(finally!) it is a metaphor meaning something along the lines of "I don't know if I was the one inflicting the damage, or whether I was the one being abused". Now I need to finish this up by saying that in no way am I writing this because I give a your mom's left tittie about the song or what you all think. I really just can't stand that people are actually fucking butt hurt about this video "don't make fun of Eddie...wahhhhh" "I like Pearl Jam" "Please stop because Eddie's dick is in mouth and I can't get him off as well when I'm upset" seriously, f*ck off. The man mumbles more than your mom when she sucks my balls. So do lots of people. Shit. Its funny.